Texting Tips to Inspire Connection with Examples

Each text should be personal, encouraging, and rooted in love. They are designed to meet people right where they are—with empathy, grace, and truth—and gently guide them toward Jesus. Whether someone is new to your church, exploring faith for the first time, or simply in need of connection, a text is your opportunity to speak life into their journey. 

Here’s 3 texting tips to inspire connection:

1. Acknowledge you are talking with a real person. 

Recognize what the person is communicating to you and share a response that you would with a friend. Let your words be personal and heartfelt, showing that you genuinely care and are present in the conversation.

Example:

Mary: "I've been feeling lonely since my kids have moved out and experience depression from time to time."

You: "I'm sorry to hear that, Mary. I know that is not an easy transition and can feel heavy on your heart, but I know you're not meant to go through this alone."

2. Provide content that is life-giving to the situation.

God has placed these people and conversations in your hands to provide hope and point to Him, so use your words to uplift, encourage, and remind them they are not alone.

Example:

Mary: "I've been feeling lonely since my kids have moved out and experience depression from time to time."

You: "I'm sorry to hear that, Mary. I know that is not an easy transition and can feel heavy on your heart, but I know you're not meant to go through this alone. God has created community to make a difference in our lives. I know stepping out and trying new things can sometimes be intimidating but attending church is worth the effort."

3. Ask questions.

Questions make it easy for the person to continue a conversation. Being intentional with your time and words will go a long way. When a question is asked, it demonstrates that you are desiring a continuous connection and opening the door for them to share more. When extending an invitation to church, it allows them to feel intentionality and accountability to take a step in their journey with God.

Example:

Mary: "I've been feeling lonely since my kids have moved out and experience depression from time to time."

You: "I'm sorry to hear that, Mary. I know that is not an easy transition and can feel heavy on your heart, but I know you're not meant to go through this alone. God has created community to make a difference in our lives. I know stepping out and trying new things can sometimes be intimidating but attending church is worth the effort. Would you be willing to come this Sunday at 10:30am?”

Someone’s next step could begin with your message.

Every message is a seed planted in someone’s heart. When you show up with kindness and intentionality, you’re helping people experience the love of Jesus in a deeply personal way.